Re: Does your hubby let U take control on his finance & how far he letting U Control
Halo, I am new here and I very interested about this topic. I am married and had 2 sons. So far my husband did not give me a single cents. All the household paid by me except children education. Even hire a maid, I also need fork out own money. Whenever I ask her buy something for children education material or attend extra class. My husband always give reason , they still young n no need learn so many. My sons age 3 n 4. I explain to him how good the learning, because myself did not know chinese and my husband know Chinese. Always the end conversation is " if I want let them learn, I need fork out my money to pay" . I am part time work n he is manager level. His salary higher then me much more. Now I start ask for monthly maintenance 500 per mth, but he will agree to pay when he in good mood. If he in bad mood, he will scold me li " why take so much money? Always know how to eat n luckily he did not give" . Till now, I have not received a cents from him. I wanted to vent my heart word into this forum.
Halo, I am new here and I very interested about this topic. I am married and had 2 sons. So far my husband did not give me a single cents. All the household paid by me except children education. Even hire a maid, I also need fork out own money. Whenever I ask her buy something for children education material or attend extra class. My husband always give reason , they still young n no need learn so many. My sons age 3 n 4. I explain to him how good the learning, because myself did not know chinese and my husband know Chinese. Always the end conversation is " if I want let them learn, I need fork out my money to pay" . I am part time work n he is manager level. His salary higher then me much more. Now I start ask for monthly maintenance 500 per mth, but he will agree to pay when he in good mood. If he in bad mood, he will scold me li " why take so much money? Always know how to eat n luckily he did not give" . Till now, I have not received a cents from him. I wanted to vent my heart word into this forum.