hmm.. ok, lets take it this way..thanks for your advice. hubby and i know that we're never going to give up our baby no matter what happens. he thinks we should not go for the screening too because he knows i can get very stressed up over the unknowns, but i have this nagging feeling that the screening might help us better prepare for our baby in the event where special care is needed. but you are so right about the tests, its not really accurate, and yes, there are positive cases who turned out to be perfect little babies with no abnormality whatsoever.
1) results is positive: what will u do? will u start saving more? will u be stressed becoz baby might be abnormal? will ur stress level affect baby?
2) results is negative: u will be relieved by the results.. but if results is not accurate n baby is abnormal after birth what will u do?
imho, just take things as it comes n dont stress urself too much. worry doesnt help u with anything n might even cause side effects to ur pregnancy.
just save up for ur baby since u will need the $ anyway and be prepared to face whatever that comes.. jiayou!