EDD June 2012 Mummies

You can always find chance to let ur hubby do the work, last time I also, then after that some time I will tell my hubby I going out with fren to club, I need to relax, ask him look after baby, he no chose have to let me go... He will do the job for looking after baby...
I agree with what Jenni said, Joey...
Go take a break, u deserve one!!!
go shopping, go movies and etc...
then let ya hubby take care of baby then he will understand how tough u r going through.
 

catflying

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Dreamalyn- what i can suggest to you is to put bb on your lap (like sitting but w your arms supporting her neck) when u are feeding her.. This will put less pressure onto your hand and wrist.. Unless u are breastfeeding, then im not sure. Cos i bottle-feed my girl.

I am also starting to feel numbness on my left hand. Hope it's not going to be strained. ><"

I'm not sure if 5 days is enough for your wrist to recover but it's better for you to rest your wrist asap before the condition worsens. Anyway, good opportunity for you to get more rest as well. :)
Try using those breast feeding pillow. My cousin gave me one and very good for bf, just lay baby on top and min handling of baby. No need to tire yourself out.
 

Joeychen85

Member
I also hope he can do lo.. hard lo.. Nw I go every where also go wif him.. Most of my fren r wrking.. Nt free to MIT me.. Wat I can do is wait few more mth.. Den let him tk care of bb.. Cos nw bb still too young Liao.. C him tk care of bb , will worry.. No mood go out also.. I will find a chance to relax myself .. some time I really too tired , den eye cannot open fully.. 1/2 open.. Den saw him tkin care of my boy , feed milk milk or change diaper den I slp bk.. Nt every time.. Tml nite will b I alone wif my boy at nite.. Cos his doin ot .. Won't ard from noon till nxt am.. Anw tml noon I will pass bb to my mil.. Seen shes cmin to cook confinement food for me... So I must well let her tk care n I go for a long nap.. That's d only chance I can rest during confinement.. After tat no more Liao.. Cos his mum won't b cmin to cook Liao.. So I was Tinkin if his nt ard n im alone.. Either bring my boy dwnstair buy food or I ownself cook porridge or Maggie mee.. Cook rice will b difficult.. Cos alone ma.. Cook 1 person quite hard..
 

Joeychen85

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Amazing pig - hw I wish my confinement finish.. N can go bath normally every day.. No nid boil d herb.. C d flooring so dark in d toilet.. B cos d herbs water dry up turns tat color.. Den weather hot like hell.. Tot was goin to rain.. Hai.. Den auto 2 hr wake up.. Even I able to get a long nap.. auto on 2 hrs alarm in my body..-_-" today shld at lease slp till 6++ or 7.. yet I already wake up nw.. Hope I able to slp bk.. 2nd time Liao.. Auto wake up wif out setting alarm to ring..
 
Black angel ur Cl left on the 28th days or after?
She left on the 28yh day itself.
Suay, rain so heavily and I can't probably chase her to leave but I Buay tahan and I finally open my mouth and said u want me to call a taxi for u? Hahahaha
and I told my hubby to call one can for her with hesitation...and send her off
 

PetPet

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Is it true tht through BF, bb will absorp calcium from mummy? I m a low bone density person, not sure whether I m suitable for long term BF?
 
She left on the 28yh day itself.
Suay, rain so heavily and I can't probably chase her to leave but I Buay tahan and I finally open my mouth and said u want me to call a taxi for u? Hahahaha
and I told my hubby to call one can for her with hesitation...and send her off
How much ang bao u gave her? Does she know u not satisfy w her all the time?
 
How much ang bao you gave her? Does she know you not satisfy w her all the time?
No lah, nv voice my unhappiness...
Just simply want to send her off ASAP...but I wrote bad reviews in forum though..
Gave her $50 hongbao when she arrives and $50 hongbao when she left
 
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Mummy who bf, will u clean ur breast before latch,use what to clean?
I nv clean before I latch cos that time attending pre-natal lesson, lactation consultation said our nipples will produce something and our nipples are actually clean.
But I clean them using cloth or cotton pad after BF.
 

Joeychen85

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I use alchor free wet tissue.. : ) I do it tis way when I'm still in hospital.. N tats d nurse pass d wet tissue to me , ask me wipe wif wet tissue den bf.. Although I pump nt latching.. But d nurse did say no matter wat shld clean up b4 bf..
 

PetPet

Member
Blackangel- yea, I went for scan last time and have low bone density.gynae prescribed me calcium pill.but dunno y the intake given is lower than my ortho specialist prescribed. Knee will pain if not enough calcium.feel like lao ah ma and depressed last time.nw start to worry tht after bb come out will it be worse or not.lol.I m in 37 weeks 2 days nw.
 
My gynae prescribe iron,calcium n fish oil to me. She say as long as breast feed, must consume the pills.

I just want to rant.
my in law always indirectly test me on handling the baby.
Firstly, When she is changing diaper, she act blur ask me which side is up. She been bathing bb for few days already. She definitely know.she testing me whether I know how to change the diaper.
secondly, she hand me bb, tell me bb haven burp, so I burp the bb in front of her.
thirdly, she told my husband, she want me to bath bb in front of her. To make sure I know how to bath bb.
I told my husband, I won't bath bb in front of her. This is not right.

Does ur in law or mom do that to u? She don trust me. Every time, when traveling. She say she will carry bb instead of putting her in car seat. She say car seat very uncomfortable.
My position hard to Argue w her. My husband already warn her car seat safer then carry. She still insist.
 
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