engel
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Being in love and in a relationship is not an investment. Yes, I know that was in inverted commas and I know what you mean. But if one seeks financial security in a relationship I suggest one works hard enough, save and go invest in shares or property instead of a man...When you love someone and start a family with them, it's more like a teamwork. We communicate and work and help each other; to do that of course ull need trust... Situations?; it's Oktoberfest mth, he has a drinking event till late so I'll b home taking care of the girls, vice versa, I've a metal gig next mth which will end late. He's gonna take leave from his work to handle the girls then...this is called working together for our family, and i think he appreciates that I trust him enough on such drinking escapades as I know I appreciate him trusting me on mine...
Btw, topic on suicide victims suffering from depression. They did not end their lives just cause their relationships disintegrated. They lost it cause they are just weaker emotionally and mentally. There will always b relationships and marriages dissolved everyday, but you don't see each and every one of them dying..; and I think some of them would have loved the other party very much as well, but lived on.. So dont blame suicides or mental breakdowns on love, its the individual.
Early part of the yr, there was a news article about how men and women seek their partners; guys for looks and girl for how much their partner earns... I feel sad for them. Well if it works for them and their relationship lasts , great. If not, then I think those are what you had mentioned 'investment' .... Sorry I don't believe in that , neither does mamapenguin nor the rest here...:/
call us foolish, but we're happily in love with our respective partners and hubbies. When you give unconditional love and trust, ull feel good, loved and it's definately a load off your mind... And if... If shit happens, cause we're all only humans... Communication is the key, on where we would go from there...
Quit being pessimistic... That's what leads to suicidal thoughts..
Btw, topic on suicide victims suffering from depression. They did not end their lives just cause their relationships disintegrated. They lost it cause they are just weaker emotionally and mentally. There will always b relationships and marriages dissolved everyday, but you don't see each and every one of them dying..; and I think some of them would have loved the other party very much as well, but lived on.. So dont blame suicides or mental breakdowns on love, its the individual.
Early part of the yr, there was a news article about how men and women seek their partners; guys for looks and girl for how much their partner earns... I feel sad for them. Well if it works for them and their relationship lasts , great. If not, then I think those are what you had mentioned 'investment' .... Sorry I don't believe in that , neither does mamapenguin nor the rest here...:/
call us foolish, but we're happily in love with our respective partners and hubbies. When you give unconditional love and trust, ull feel good, loved and it's definately a load off your mind... And if... If shit happens, cause we're all only humans... Communication is the key, on where we would go from there...
Quit being pessimistic... That's what leads to suicidal thoughts..
Her situation is very dangerous. She put so high hope that her husband is very faithful.
Let say touch wood, her husband can't resist the temptation.
What will she feel ? Some people can't take it at all.
This is life. Don't put all the "investment" in one basket.
Suicide victim said to have suffered from depression - Channel NewsAsia
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