wenz
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mine is of opposite... my ger is hyperactive and notti... so difficult to tame her and during my 1st 2months after the arrival of my baby i almost go crazy! actually it depends on the character of ur kids too and how they are being treated..yeah ting i knw your sharing with us~ :tlaugh:Sumhow i just feel that gers are easier to take care than boys~ Tats how i compare my baby ger with her elder bro when both at the same age :001_302:
if u spoilt them, i believe gers can also be horrible...
my mum used to employed maids to help in hse work cos she is self-employed so are often working long and till late hours 7days a week... i had 7 maids in 6yrs...
1st maid (phil) came and told us agency bluff her to come here and work as maid and her family actually sent money over to let her go back, she is degree holder and her family is rich... so after 3months she left...
2nd maid (phil) was a very fast worker, she can finish her chores by 8pm and turn in by 830pm... she woke up at 7am everyday... finished her contract and gone back
to cut it short, the rest of the maids are from Indo, 1 got herself preggy and was found out when she was 5th mth preg, return her back to agent, 1 sell our things but we only found out when she finished her contract and was abt to go back indo, but lucky all are not valueable, just some clothes and pouches so we let her bring it back... and rest are more or less on average.. not very gd not very bad.... my last maid she will always cook abalone/seafood with maggie mee as lunch... but we are always ok with it...
i believe i do have quite alot of experience with maids as well...
and i do intend to get 1 maid after i moved into my new hse, reason cos i my son who is in pri sch, i dun feel safe to let him be home alone after school and the maid can help to prepare lunch for him.... while my other 2 kids will be attending nursery/kindergarten by then...
i always teach my kids even with maid around they are not allow to BOSS the maid... if wan drink water, pour urself!! i dun employ her here to pour water for u... unless u got no hands~~ my kids still need to do their own chores/simple chores and the maid is here to lessen our burden and also to help keep alook out for my kids and prepare lunch for them when they are back from school...