peppermint
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Gosh!! You gave her keys to your house?? I WILL not. Yea, you are right. She is the sort of mother who allows her son to do whatever he likes, even so it will harm him. I think it is more of her being afraid that her son will to give her money anymore. As I've said earlier, she will be that sort who doesnt want us to have kids because she is worried that once baby comes along, her son will give her less allowance and of course, less attention. Evil heart she is!! She didn't do her part as a mother last time, cos she's always out for MJ and because of bad influence, my husband also plays MJ daily since secondary school, even during exams period. But luckily, he is smart and now doing well in a bank.hubby very good temper person , so he very chin chai plus maybe he ownself cant tahan his own mother .. his mom nags at him even more , wen she keep nagging until i bth , even she say dont wake my hubby up let him sleep , i still wake him up so his mom can change target to nag
i hope next time she comes , i'm not home !! then make her wait outside if she never bring our home keys , cos yest also like that , ask us open and use our keys to lock the door before she go , like she never bring our keys like that
cfm naggy , super 100% naggy , i told my mom ''i thought you very lorso last time , now i met more power one then you'' my mom laugh so loudly over the fone last nite LOL
i tink she dont dare nag your hubby quit smoking cos she scare your hubby later dont like her and keep away fm her then she cham , cannot ill treat you anymore LOL
how old your mother in law? mine alrdy 60+ , still shld be healthy , altho complain some problems sometimes but she still able to work and she cant stop working cos she very like 'like money type'
My in-laws are not highly educated - think secondary. The witch should be 63 (born in the year of Tiger) works as a clerk in the government board - the really 9 to 5 job. When she found out that me and hubby always worked till very late, she will tell us she doesn't because her colleagues will say that she is trying to show off and she said,"if I finished my work today, then tomorrow do what?". So it's really the old school gov sect style. Good life isn't it? And the thing is, she doesn't even has to take on a second job, her free time is go play MJ, go Bottomslim centers, go diamond peel facials. And yet, she always tell her son this,"Mummy very Poorthing and Sua Koo (mountain tortoise)"
Before she is about to retire, she act like she's a saint. Said her plan is to go Kong Meng San temple to do volunteer work aft her retirement - that's why she move over so close to us at Sin Ming (w/o us knowing) And she used to stay at Lakeview - just 5 mins away. I am glad that we have now move out of Sin Ming and far away from her. Bet she's jumping mad but she wouldn't show, she will start all sort of nonsense to hint to us - which she already started.
Now that she retires, she goes play MJ daily. Never hear her mention abt going to Kong Meng San to do volunteer work. She said her Niece has a small office, asked her if she wants to go over to do part time. Witch said she doesn't want to work anymore, she wants to enjoy old age and so what if niece offers to pay her, she is not interested. Arrogant right?!! Because you know why? Her son gives her money every month to enjoy. And she sold Lakeview for $900k, so much cash she has, she don't need to work at all! She doesn't even need to withdraw cash from her CPF, says she wants to keep it there for high interest rates. And yet, she always tell her son that,"mummy very poor wan, mummy need to save money for retirement age, mummy very poor never have branded bags, etc". Isn't she already at retirement stage? So she's a lazy bum, doesn't want to work yet wants to control all our money. Just On Sunday, she was telling us her friend's daughter who is a lawyer, is very good to the mother. She knows that her mother now old already and retired with nothing to do, so she got her mother the membership to the Casino - that she is such good girl and treats the mother so well. Ahem! What is she trying to hint?!!
Luckily my husband now smarter, as in I managed to talk him into looking at our future instead. Saving up for our futureand our kids if we have any later. And he's doing it well, if not, I tell you he will save all his money with his mother!!! And at the end of the day his money becomes her money. And it happened to us before.
When we got married, we bought a condo at Sin Ming. My husband told his mother that he needs the cash in the bank account (these are my husband's money! All his bonuses, etc). Inititally I didn't know he took the money out from their joint account. Many years later, his cousin told me that that witch was bitching to her that WE actually went to BEG her for cash to pay the first installment for the condo!!! I was mad. I went back to question my hubby and he explained to me. He said mummy was very ok for him to take the money out and those were his money!! I said, "your mother has been telling other that WE BEG HER FOR IT!". My husband even tell me that he puts the money back to the account within two months. The part which the witch didn't tell others. Now he knows what sort of mother she is.