lawla12
Well-Known Member
he dun see it tat way...he says his elder sis has 3 kids, she needs some $ of her own....she cant go work cos no1 take care of her kids....so she has no choice but to b SAHM........Lawla, just tell her that since she made that decision, then she should find a solution to hous them, not dump them!
& it's her personal choice to be stay at home mum.
She should be asking her husband for $$$, not eyeing the house that her mum still living in!!!
If she need$$, go work!!
If she's working & in debt, need $$$, I can understand her circumstance. But now, she's being plain lazy!!
her solution----dump her family into my house lohhhh.....she says tat since young, she's has been taking care of the house---yes its true....woody last time ahbeng ahseng, nv tink.......eversince she grad from poly, she has been supporting the whole house......even when all of them r working (his younger sis n woody), they nv contribute anyting (they only gif $ to his mum, but not the installment n bills).....his elder sis is still paying for evyting until now....
so woody says tat now his elder sis needs help, he shd do smting.....tats y he feels tat he shd take care of his younger sis since she has no place to stay......
per above---woody says now his elder sis needs help, he shd do smting.....but yet i refuse to share his sorrows---i'm selfish~if now, the house was kanna burnt down, and they got no place to stay, YES your should house them in. but now, is his sis backside itchy wanna rent out the house. since that's the case, ask her to pay $500 to you every month, to help you pay for some bills.
totally agree!!!
she says tat she has totally zero savings...she needs some spare cash for her own since she has 3 kids.....Actually, I thought his elder sis married into a rich family? Why would she need $$$?