apollo
Well-Known Member
i've recently ust gave birth to my baby boy..
my relatives came to visit me and ds recently and asked what brand milk powder i gave him.. when i told them i'm giving him friso, they keep asked me y i dun wanna give him those brand like similac or enfalac which are more good..
but they keep sounds lik even if my finance is only normal and not those well off kind, also must get those best brand for ds... and partly becos my cousins gave their baby similac/enfalac so it seems lik i'm a stingy mother cos i chose friso for him.. some keep asked me to change to the other brand asap cos friso is not good and cause their baby to hav constipation... but me, hubby and my mum feel tt there's no nd to change as my ds is okay with friso so far...
another thing is, they keep compare my ds with my cousin's.. saying hw come my ds is so small compared with my cousin's, why my ds has lesser hair, y my ds is not as chubby as my cousin's...
I really hate it!!!!!!! now i still can dun care them but i dun wish when ds grow older they still compare! i noe the feeling of being compare by adults and i dun wish ds to hav this kind of "stress" in future cos of those relatives comparing his height, look, hair, results etc...
and 1 of the relatives asked me if i have bathe ds befoe on my own, i said no, so far CL is doing it and she said "wow u so hao ming! anything also dun nd to do and dun hav to learn hor?" tt time i just gave birth less than 2 weeks,everyone including CL, family, relatives asked me not to touch water if can and can only learn hw to bathe baby aft 2 weeks yet she said tt! And she asked again what I knowhow to do other than just resting at hm? i was so pissed off and reply her "other than bathing my son, everything i also know! changing diaper, clean his poo, wipe him, feed him....."
i'm so sad and bothered abt their sarcastic comments,though sometimes they didn't make it too straight.. i'm doing partial BF-ing but no one "praise" or encourage me at all... all they know is to give sarcastic remarks..
my relatives came to visit me and ds recently and asked what brand milk powder i gave him.. when i told them i'm giving him friso, they keep asked me y i dun wanna give him those brand like similac or enfalac which are more good..
but they keep sounds lik even if my finance is only normal and not those well off kind, also must get those best brand for ds... and partly becos my cousins gave their baby similac/enfalac so it seems lik i'm a stingy mother cos i chose friso for him.. some keep asked me to change to the other brand asap cos friso is not good and cause their baby to hav constipation... but me, hubby and my mum feel tt there's no nd to change as my ds is okay with friso so far...
another thing is, they keep compare my ds with my cousin's.. saying hw come my ds is so small compared with my cousin's, why my ds has lesser hair, y my ds is not as chubby as my cousin's...
I really hate it!!!!!!! now i still can dun care them but i dun wish when ds grow older they still compare! i noe the feeling of being compare by adults and i dun wish ds to hav this kind of "stress" in future cos of those relatives comparing his height, look, hair, results etc...
and 1 of the relatives asked me if i have bathe ds befoe on my own, i said no, so far CL is doing it and she said "wow u so hao ming! anything also dun nd to do and dun hav to learn hor?" tt time i just gave birth less than 2 weeks,everyone including CL, family, relatives asked me not to touch water if can and can only learn hw to bathe baby aft 2 weeks yet she said tt! And she asked again what I knowhow to do other than just resting at hm? i was so pissed off and reply her "other than bathing my son, everything i also know! changing diaper, clean his poo, wipe him, feed him....."
i'm so sad and bothered abt their sarcastic comments,though sometimes they didn't make it too straight.. i'm doing partial BF-ing but no one "praise" or encourage me at all... all they know is to give sarcastic remarks..