hw i wish i can be like u... my hubby & bro often say i too timid alrdy tt's y everyone keep "target" at me... :embarrassed:tink your relatives must get a taste of it to know that you are not nice to mess with.
my relatives know that me and my husband not nice to mess with so they keep their comments to themselves unless it's compliments
HAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!! like that you also can think of ah??? salute u lo!!!:tlaugh:all aunties from the older generation like to compare and they always feel their own child is the best. they just want to let other ppl know their child is the best and even if they know in their heart their own child is not the best, they still want to make believe that their own child is the best. ignore what they said.. and yes, during confinement, you are not supposed to touch water.. i wasnt even allow to wash the dishes and cups after i finished my meal..is some kinda old myths again so dont be bothered about what they said.. you must take good care of your health and build up your health during tis period. next time, if you do encounter such 'comparsions epsiodes', tell them nobody is perfect, between/ among you and tis anutie that auntie, who you tink is prettier/ smarter? ask tis rite infront of all the aunties and see what they say (about their own siblings)...let them fight among themselves!
wah, and ur hubby really buys for his sis???aiyo...then i have this sister In law that whatever she sees that i have, if hubby got it for me, she will also ask my hubby to buy one for her...last your hubby gave me diamond ring for bday and a set of crabtree and evelyn thingy (soap, lotion, powder etc...)...when she saw, she commented : waaah, your lucky my bro likes to pamper you...wow, he got you a diamond ring!!! (eyes wide open)...then to my hubby: i also want ring like that, buy one for me also...if she sees anything new in my wardrob...shoes, skirt, slippers, blouse...even perfume...she ask if my hubby got it for me, or where i got it, as she will definately buy one the same, or more expensive...then will wear it, and would comment that she got it first, that i just follow her fashion...sigh.
'Sayang'...hw i wish i can be like you... my hubby & bro often say i too timid alrdy that's why everyone keep "target" at me... :embarrassed:
sometimes becos of dun wanna be lable as "unfilial" most of the time gonna keep quiet...:embarrassed:husband doesn't tell pple off when his family compares or talks crap about baby.
now that baby is chubby, his side can actually say ' so short '? can faint.
if i talk back, i'm like the unfilial daughter in law. sigh.
so i bo pian, just listen and ignore. and then think of all the nasty things i want to do to them. *evil laughter*
haha yalo yalo.. bo bian have to think this way to make myself feel better... i only scare next time when my boy grow up, he'll feel uncomfortable too when ppl keep take him and others to compare...'Sayang'...
I have friend in Malaysia, she have 3 sons..
Every time when I go back to Ipoh, cannot praise her son.. (my friend very pantang type)
Must say the opposite thing..
Example, if I feel her son very cute I must say ugly.. :001_302:
So, I think you can set you mind when your relative keep compare means they jealous and more they compare the better is your son.. lol :tlaugh:
Hey Regina! how are you?! congrats ...haha yalo yalo.. bo bian have to think this way to make myself feel better... i only scare next time when my boy grow up, he'll feel uncomfortable too when ppl keep take him and others to compare...
wah, and your hubby really buys for his sis???
haha thks thks..Hey Regina! how are you?! congrats ...
Sigh....now compare milk powder is a start only.. next time will compare more things and throughout one!!!
i have a cousin born in the same year as me....
young that time her mother like to compare height and weight (always say i very skinny when is her precious daughter FAT!!)....
then in secondary compare school results (even if her results suck)...
when graduated, she will compare where we work
then a few years back, compare our spouse's jobs and wedding venues cos my cousin and 1 got married in the same year.....
All these years my mum cannot be bothered.... cos my mum says: aiyo... everyone know who is better, no need to compare one!! hehehe....
i hate it when people aske me if i'm breastfeeding anot and when i say only few times per day then they keep say i got no milk la, blah blah blah......... wonder why they so kaypo...i also have relatives like somewhat like to compare.
when they were invited for first month at my hm, we had buffet catering.
I stayed inside the rm with baby girl, cus outside very noisy.
One by one, came in and ask me, some ask : why never feed breast milk?
problem is i tried with pump and she sucking still no milk, cus i stopped for 2 days without latching her. (due to family ask me dont bf)
worst : they illustrate how their daughters or daughter in law have abundant breast milk, which makes you feel even sadder
My cousin is like tt haha. My HB bought me a LV, then he also ask her HB to buy her a LV. Cannot stand it man. When I say I wanna go some countires for holiday she will also haolian say will go too.aiyo...then i have this sister In law that whatever she sees that i have, if hubby got it for me, she will also ask my hubby to buy one for her...last your hubby gave me diamond ring for bday and a set of crabtree and evelyn thingy (soap, lotion, powder etc...)...when she saw, she commented : waaah, your lucky my bro likes to pamper you...wow, he got you a diamond ring!!! (eyes wide open)...then to my hubby: i also want ring like that, buy one for me also...if she sees anything new in my wardrob...shoes, skirt, slippers, blouse...even perfume...she ask if my hubby got it for me, or where i got it, as she will definately buy one the same, or more expensive...then will wear it, and would comment that she got it first, that i just follow her fashion...sigh.
yeah, i dunno with people like this thinking...when she asked how i budget, i say im practical one, and will not go to grocery without list, then she'll say: yes, yes, im practical person too...and im very good with budgeting...my hubby even surprised how i handle money, he say im smart mom..."...but when she talked to my friend, she said, she doesnt know how to budget. what she knows is if its more expensive, its better...she told her friend, that her family cant drink water if its not distilled/mineral...but when i told her that im just sterilizing water, she said, she also sterilize water, as its better...dunno which is which :nah:My cousin is like that haha. My husband bought me a LV, then he also ask her husband to buy her a LV. Cannot stand it man. When I say I wanna go some countires for holiday she will also haolian say will go too.
These pple just cannot make it. :mmad: