Ya la.... Uncle busy mah.... now back! :tlaugh:Uncle you MIA very long .
Ya la.... Uncle busy mah.... now back! :tlaugh:Uncle you MIA very long .
aiyoh.......what a desperate woman! HOw old ?
what bullshit, isn't she doing it now?!
Jian Nu Ren *slap* slap*ya
what a load of craps!
this world so small
she's actually my gf's sis's friend...in her thirties
Jian Nu Ren *slap* slap*
Never mind they both will get their retribution one day!
this one im not very sure.Hi all,
I need some additional information, can't seem to find elsewhere. My son's biological father wants to see my baby, I am still considering whether to allow him to because i am aware he can get visitation rights if he wants to fight.
1. What exactly are visitation rights? Does it mean he can take my boy out? Coz I'm afraid when I go to work, my mum allows him to take baby out, I will not allow, and will consider that kidnap.
hmmm, this one im not very sure, cos IF your mum is the main caregiver, she also hv a "right" to give consent? maybe u wanna consider infant care? like that u can prevent him from seeing your baby also.
2. If he secretly goes do a DNA test (not court ordered), and I find out about it, is there anything i can do?
but he needs "samples" from your son (ie, hair, saliva). if he cant get them, then he cant do the DNA tests.. but he can still get it from your mother though.
3. He wanted me to abort, coz I called off the wedding last min (almost got married coz of baby), and told me no need to inform him anything about baby thereafter, but now he wants to see my boy; dont't know what his intentions are. Can he fight for equal custody even if we were never married, and just based that he is the biological father?
do u hv any evidence of him saying all these? abt asking u to abort, n not wanting to hv anything to do with baby? if u do, u can use it against him.
not sure if u can prevent him from seeing your son or not, but at least it helps u on your stand stronger.
4. He agreed beforehand he does not want to have anything to do with baby since we broke up already. Now I'm terrified if he wants to take my baby go see his parents, grandparents, aunties, uncles, and these old people, see once sure want to see again and again and again. Is this EVER preventable?
if he gets custody/visitation rights from the court, then sorry to say, he can bring your son to meet whoever he wants to.
5. I believe my son is considered 'illegitimate' since I'm a single unwed mum. What difference would it make if i wanna make him my 'legitimate' son? How to make him 'legitimate'?
this one im not very sure.
ssy, i think it is best for you to consult a lawyer to seek more advice.:wong19:
thats y i'm finding out if any single mummy had the same situation. coz here mostly, bb's father didn't go get lawyer to fight for visitation rights.hmmm you r working now right??
your salary isit high??
i not sure if consultation will cost you alot anot, since not engaging only consultation.
if not you try legal aid???
LAB > Home
okie will try. but meanwhile i'm still hoping my mum will decide tht her own daughter's wellbeing is more important that some guy outside who re-appears after all the drama to reap rewards..ehhh how come you cannot get in...?
hmmmm, i can click n the site appears.
maybe you try to google legal aid bureau n check out the details.
sayangs~okie will try. but meanwhile i'm still hoping my mum will decide tht her own daughter's wellbeing is more important that some guy outside who re-appears after all the drama to reap rewards..
on a separate note, my confinement nanny commented that my baby cries very loud, must be that i had a bad pregnancy, true , i wasn't happy, very stressed, who day getting it from my mum and work of course. ARGH. love my little angel to bits.
sayangs~
no lahs i dont believe in such tings.
cos, i didnt exactly have a happy pregnancy either. (i cried, screamed n shouted alot!)
but pin turned out to be an amazingly easy baby to look after.
she doesnt cry alot though she has a loud n sharp voice.
happy one mth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!hehe their voices all loud loud. very powerful, strong lungs.
Happy 1 month my little boy today!
i guess even though nobody tells her she will also sense it.....children are very sensitive...hi ,
i need some advice.
I am in the mist of settling my divorce.
My daughter is 3 yrs old, staying with me.
Recently she at nite , she will cry and say she wants her papa.
wants papa & mama, not 1 of us..
(i dont know if any one tell her anything ...)
when i hear that , i really feel very sad.
I feel guilty towards her.
Can anyone tell me how can i handle this.
is she very close with her dad?the marriage really can't go on anymore ..
now my focus is only how i can make the child feel better...