Valentine's Day
- Thread starter CanCanMum
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i did mentioned this counselling thingy to hb as well, thinking we can attend together.. but he not keen..
things are stagnant now..
could be our flat not due for selling.. he cant reali proceed for divorce becos of that ba..
CanCanMum
Moderator
its just your assumption dear, perhaps he is not thinking this way?
will it help if u go on a short holiday trip with him? Sometimes taking a break away from the usual place can help to lighten things a bit?
i dun reali have much confidence abt this marriage..
nearly everytime we quarrel, he will bring up the divorce thingy..
i always ask myself.. if he reali treasure me, he shld not always be bringing this matter up..
sometimes reali very pissed off.. how i wish i could just give up this marriage.. haiz.. but den again.. i lack the courage..
actually we jus came back from our cruise trip but thing is not turning better..
dats wat i'm doing now.. leading day by day.. machiam waiting for death sentence lydat... haiz..
SH74
Member
ya. i know. but mayb he got no intention to divorce at all? his life is like normal, unaffected by all the quarrels. but urs so badly affected. no pt. so try not to think too much n carry on w ur life.
most impt is b financially independent. if no kids, at least easier to settle stuff. not as bad. if thinking of divorce or marriage on the rocks, then got kids alr, lagi sian.
most impt is b financially independent. if no kids, at least easier to settle stuff. not as bad. if thinking of divorce or marriage on the rocks, then got kids alr, lagi sian.