Hi mummies, just to randomly go around to ask whether do you post a blog to bitch about your spouse?
Hmm no really... maybe just say abit but not into details... why you ask??:tlaugh:
I see. Sigh...actually me thinking of getting a separation
I think sometimes we think things in a moment of anger....but think abt it again clearly......, mayb you can communicate what u want with hubby?actually me thinking of getting a separation
I see. Sigh...
I hope you can work on e marriage than getting a separation ..
Are things really so serious that you need a separation?
Is it just his character that he doesn't know how to show concern? Is he trying to talk/joke when he say things like you are lazy? some pple just dont't know how to communicate. Maybe you should let him know how you feel first and see if things gets better?
Chiro think some guys are born to b insensitive it's part of their character traits that can't b changed but I'm sure he loves you if not he wouldn't even have bothered doing the fire man lift.. my hubby speaks without thinking about my feelings too at times but I know he still loves us in his unique way.. you needa catch a breather... Will arrange with dom if can meet you kopi session soon!
Hmmm. Your husband sound like me instead as I am of Engineering background . Grad with EEE ... :001_302:Sometimes my hubby tries to explain and i will say "No Logic" . :shyxxx:. You should do this , then this then after that this . hahahah ..
But my hubby does irriated me with all the little little actions he does.
Well , i will payback with interest most of the time too ... :001_302:
At the end of the day , your hubby do luv you . If not will not carry all the way to the clinic
When we get marry , must accept the person as a whole package .
As long as he never cross that invisible line that lead to divorce , i think just work on the marriage..
you r right..he and his stoopid father dont know how to express themself...and to show concern...
i did try to let him know how i feel but he just say that its an excuse blah blah blah
he is an achiever, sets high standards for himself and expect others to keep up 100%..like to ask "why", "why you say this and that" , "you should have said this" and "how" but when explain oredi..told me "this is not an excuse" or "no logic"
maybe he got engineering background...(sorry if i have stepped on toes of engineers) so everything around him must be in logical sequence..orderly..conversations must flow..and not jump around ( i very high I, so talk alot and my points jump around)
so i very fed up , i told him that I am I, he cannot expect me to talk in the way he wants to/ would understand
and when i talk i just talk..i dont draw imaginery lines to connect what i said so that they would make sense..
so now when he ask "why/ how" i will tell him "i would not explain anything if everything time you classify them as excuses"
then silence
anyway i am now at my parents place..enjoying hahaha..
he did want me back home as one cast have been removed..but my parents dont allow cos they cannot imagine what nasty things he will say to me..worse..coupled with his stoopid father...who talks like a woman..everything also must ask "why and how" as if it will affect his meat or his down there..he just ask for fun and want to have his say..and his say is not edifying or encouraging to ppl at all...he was man of few words in the house until my son comes along..
really regretted stayin with in laws...
my friend told me "you can choose your hubby, but cannot choose your in laws, buy one, get two free...one is a dog, the other is a bitch"
anyway, i sabotage his blog by posting some comments about him..ahhahaha:werolleyes: for all to see..and have customise my settings on facebook so that he cannot view my wall and i can bitch about him