from wat i know, they will still ask u to try to dig out the bio father to sign on the consent form unless u really cannot reach him, thn the court will give another course of action ba..what if like my son's BC doesn't include father's name, i don't have to worry abt the adoption thing right?
He has shown his real answer. If a wise and responsible of his action. He won't denied of his action of getting you pregnant.Thanks for all the replies, everyone.
So much drama has been going on between my parents, his parents, me and him. He does not believe I am pregnant after taking so many pregnancy kits. Intended to show him the ultrasound photos but he said that it could have been photo-shopped. He has hurt me enough, proven to me that he's not a responsible person, much less a responsible father. Therefore, I've decided. I am going to keep this baby and take care of him. I believe I can get over my ex-boyfriend and be a good mother. I have the support of my parents and true friends, and that is all that matters...
jiayou! im sure u will do just fine.Thanks for all the replies, everyone.
So much drama has been going on between my parents, his parents, me and him. He does not believe I am pregnant after taking so many pregnancy kits. Intended to show him the ultrasound photos but he said that it could have been photo-shopped. He has hurt me enough, proven to me that he's not a responsible person, much less a responsible father. Therefore, I've decided. I am going to keep this baby and take care of him. I believe I can get over my ex-boyfriend and be a good mother. I have the support of my parents and true friends, and that is all that matters...
What a jerk to say that you faked the pregnancy!Thanks for all the replies, everyone.
So much drama has been going on between my parents, his parents, me and him. He does not believe I am pregnant after taking so many pregnancy kits. Intended to show him the ultrasound photos but he said that it could have been photo-shopped. He has hurt me enough, proven to me that he's not a responsible person, much less a responsible father. Therefore, I've decided. I am going to keep this baby and take care of him. I believe I can get over my ex-boyfriend and be a good mother. I have the support of my parents and true friends, and that is all that matters...
after he saw my boy i'm dead sure his family will never allow him to sign away all paternal rights. I'd rather lie and say i am not sure who the father is... but i could get into trouble. This is so fan-nao...from wat i know, they will still ask u to try to dig out the bio father to sign on the consent form unless u really cannot reach him, thn the court will give another course of action ba..
best is still to dig him out to sign to prevent any implications in future..
my girl's BC also doesn't include the father's particular..
jia you!Thanks for all the replies, everyone.
So much drama has been going on between my parents, his parents, me and him. He does not believe I am pregnant after taking so many pregnancy kits. Intended to show him the ultrasound photos but he said that it could have been photo-shopped. He has hurt me enough, proven to me that he's not a responsible person, much less a responsible father. Therefore, I've decided. I am going to keep this baby and take care of him. I believe I can get over my ex-boyfriend and be a good mother. I have the support of my parents and true friends, and that is all that matters...
do they know the existence of ur boy now?after he saw my boy i'm dead sure his family will never allow him to sign away all paternal rights. I'd rather lie and say i am not sure who the father is... but i could get into trouble. This is so fan-nao...
during pregnancy he totally disappeared, once baby was born, he ask to meet me, talk to me, pressure me into letting him see the boy. his parents have also seen the boydo they know the existence of your boy now?
very true..!! very rare to see father's care is much more better than mother.. if he can just dump u like tat he can even dump ur baby.. what is he trying to say ?? to say tat ur an unfaithful woman.. haiz.. take good care of urself n baby..What a jerk to say that you faked the pregnancy!
Jia you! Don't keep the baby becos of him but for yourself. You should have recorded when he said this! So angry to hear this.
I always believe that kids taken care by mother is better than father. Without father's love it's better than without mother's love.......
HI there, i just saw this thread and am new to this forum. Hugs to you for being so brave. i know, i am a single mum too..although i chose to be one as i am not young but no suitable partner for life, i know its very tough to be doing it alone, whether by choice or taken by surprise. IF you are financially ok, take care of baby yourself. he can visit once in a while if he wants but no obligation from him and dont feel bad if he doesnt. its probably easier for you if he chooses not to. Just think of the baby..i think probably your baby will want to know his/her daddy. he is still daddy, even if he is not ready or dont want to commit to you or like some say, a jerk, its his life but to your baby, he is her/his daddy. he cant fight for custody by the way..he has no right to the baby except to prove he his the biological father, so dont worry about that.Dear ladies, thanks for all the advice given.
I don't really know why I am confused right now. Partly because I know his family members well enough to trust them to take care of my Baby. He was convincing, telling me that I ought to go back and concentrate on my studies after giving birth, while he takes care of the Baby. It just hurts my feelings...when he asks about the Baby's health, and not about my health in general. Like a few hours ago, he asked to meet, because he wants to see the Baby (ultrasound photos) and not me. The way I see it, it could be a high possibility that he's not going to let me see our baby in the future when he's giving me signs like this....
I really want to keep this baby, as expected of my parents. Financial wise, we're doing okay..
Thanks to all the views given here, I appreciate every single opinion.