I think it is important o spend time to bring up my children and by their side when they still need us.. maybe till they are about 5 yrs old or primary school then they no longer so dependent on us and I can go out to work again. Both myself and my hubby has come into this decision and he also think it is important to shape the children when they are still young and need attentions... and I am so blessed that God is on our side and perhaps it is part of God's plan to . Perhaps for this season my ministry is on my family Lucky you!! I cannot afford not to work le. Wif bb expenses will def shoot up. Juz thinking of no need to work is such a nice dream
You are doing it very well and keep it up!! All the ummies jia you!! .. don't make yourself think that you are huang Lian Po.. we are modern mummies and always keep abreast of tends and things happening around and furthermore we have a groups of mummies friends here What we are experiencing now is just we temporary shift our priority to our family and the new born before we decide to go out to work again when there are more independent ... Look ahead Havent been working since I found out I was pregnant, my job requires me to quit.
Well I think ive no choice but to be full time staying at home mum now cuz I've no help at all n hubby wants me to stay at home too. Unless I find other alternatives Ive to be huang Lian Po ;(... Where u residing gal? If nearby maybe can help each other out at times or go for kopi
Its mother nature as most of my friends also not intend to go back to work after their maternity leaves..Yupz they do charge. But dun know when charges are kicking in. As of 13Mar, no charges so far
hahaha, actuall b4 ROM when staying w/ parent i do freelance stay at home mostly also, onli meet clients maybe once a week. i still enjoy working life. i cant afford to quit also, w/ the lifestyle i enjoy now. even hubby earn alot, dun think i wan to stay at home also.. i feel lonely even w/ baby.Wow... you even have a better tai tai life than all of us.. hahaha. Maybe you will change your mind and want to stay with the baby when you see how cute is your baby
Haha, thn I btr join the hospital tour n c if TMC has any sofa in the delivery ward in case hubby need it...
So for first 3 months do we need to standby S n M size?
Yes, it will be so good if can give bb 100% attention... Too bad we cannot afford that...got to continue working...I think it is a good decision to give attention to your baby first as it is really not easy to take care of a baby.. and some more you are fully breastfeed... will be even more exhausted. But it will be worthy when you see your child is going strong and healthy
Even now I already feel very tired before the baby is arrive... so really need to rest ..
Think can buy the nb size one first cos think can last up to 4 kgs if I rem
So if we want to fully breastfeed we have to let the nurse know so that they dont give the formula to our baby?
Me!! I am left with a few more items.. Hopefully can complete packing soon.
Hi Gemini11,
I am staying at Bedok. Ya hopefully can come out to meet but nowadays when walk for a short distance will feel very tired and sometimes breathless... do you experience that?
Ya.. I also quit my job around the time when I preg
clearbluesky,
Actually i'm still quite active. wont expereince breathlessness but if i forget and over walk, then at night my back will ache. I'm more uncomfortable when it comes to standing for too long, walking is fine. strange. N i feel uncomfortable sleeping, have to toss n turn cuz stomach too heavy, n baby legs and head is on both of my sides. sleep on right scare will hurt his head, sleep on left i think his leg uncomfortable keep kicking me away....zzzz
Huang lian po as in last time when i was working ill makeup n doll up everytime. Nowadays, i dont even apply much makeup. N with my growing weight n unkempt hair ( cuz dont dear to go colour so must as well dont do anything first) i really feel that i'm going out of hand. for the sake of baby
sometimes will worry hubby stray ( i know im thinking too much. LOL) cuz his job is always surrounded by many pretty gals.. though i trust him. BUT.. then again....
Glad to know that I'm not alone. Always thought I shouldn't b thinking too much zzzDear Gemini11, believed throughout our pregnancy, there will be instances whereby we hv 'coldfeet' thinking of the weight we put on n how tt affect our physical appearance, if we can shed off these extra kgs after delivery, how our hubby view such changes in us etc.. All such fears, doubts are very much real. You are def not alone
For me, I hv such insecurities at times so tend to ask my hubby if he still loves me, despite tt fact tt I m 35 yrs old n rightfully shd not be behaving like such. Lol. Guess we juz need the assurance now n then. Being pregnant doesn't juz affect our physical, it affects our emotions too.
End of day, think back why u married ur guy, u hv faith n trust in him thus willing to go down the marriage path. Now, as we mummies move into a new phase of our lives, our man will be besides us, giving us the support, love we need. Continue to Hv faith ya!!
