The other nite my mil force me to drink barley, but i drink any kind of liang teh except barley, so i was just being honest.. but she was like 'dun wanna drink dun drink' in a v angry tone.. then i gt so upset and swallow the drink, only to vomit out ltr.. coz i admit i have a bad habit, if i dun like to eat or drink something, i will vomit out regardless how small the amount is.. tts y even my family dun force me to eat things i dislike..I try to feedback to him everynight, but he gets very annoyed. Then when I explode all at once, he say I'm being mean. Then when I ask him to be empathetic, he says he don't mind if my mum was like his. Then I will tell him "ofcourse you're saying things so easy la! Cause it's just an example what, and my parents are very understanding, they don't nag at you or scold you" i was scolded by his mother several times you know, like she literally shout at me infront of hubby but he does nothing! He just stand there and keep quiet. And because I have to respect that she is his mother, I keep quiet, then I go toilet and cry. You see, what kind of person I am with? She can go around scolding other people's daughter like that? As If I don't have mother or father? I don't even dare to tell my parents about this. What the hell?! You think this kind of husband can mah? Arbo I ask his mother to come up to my house and I ask my parents to scold her son infront of her la. See how she feels.
i told my hubby, he was keeping his doubts about wat i say until one fateful day.. my mil was complaining about my picky diet and intake of rice.. (coz i belong to the chubby side, so i try to eat rice only once a week, nothing more than tt) she just kept gg and gg on abt it.. then i was txting my hubby abt it.. but i didn't noe that he was actually standing outside the main door.. so he came in and say tt everyone has their preference, not everything has to go w her theory.. his mum's face sunk and was trying to explain tt she wasn't scolding me, she is just concern n yada..
so pretty lucky for me tt day.. coz i was about to break down at hm and wanted to tell my hubby tt i wanna get my sis to pick me up to go to my mum's place to slp.. so in the end he say he is hungry, say he wanna go supper, and brought me to buy magnum ice-cream (my habit of destressing when i am upset) from 7-11..