same goes here.. my hubby is malaysian. his parents in spore. some of his siblings is in all over malaysia. imagine having your family scattered across two continents and getting a headache over where to spend the festive season..Nationality - My hubby is neighbour, from Malaysia now Singapore PR.
Race - He looks awfully like a Malay so I kinda suspect his mother may have brought home the wrong baby.
We went ROM without parents knowing, forbidden love. Over the past 12 years, my parents had never met his parents.
Woah... so cool you.. realli deep in love with your hubby.Nationality - My hubby is neighbour, from Malaysia now Singapore PR.
Race - He looks awfully like a Malay so I kinda suspect his mother may have brought home the wrong baby.
We went ROM without parents knowing, forbidden love. Over the past 12 years, my parents had never met his parents.
I can understand your pain. My mother in law says the same things about my dotter. Everything about my dotter is sindhi/pakistani. But lucky for me, my hubby has realised how RACIST his family is. So he supports me and always tells them off if they are insensitive to my ethnicity. We even quarreled with his parents because of that.then she say " she is malaysia blood what, not singapore blood "
Can you imagine my pain inside?
You should film them down & send it to police post for racist remarks. This is what my neighbour (Indian) did to her FIL (Malay). First time he got stern warning from police & if there's a 2nd time, he'll have to go to court.I can understand your pain. My mother in law says the same things about my dotter. Everything about my dotter is sindhi/pakistani. But lucky for me, my hubby has realised how RACIST his family is. So he supports me and always tells them off if they are insensitive to my ethnicity. We even quarreled with his parents because of that.
As a mixed race family, my hubby and I really do not encourage racial talks in front of our dotter. To us, we're all SINGAPOREANS. Doesn't matter what ethnicity we all come from.
But no....hubby's side keep praising their own ethnicity. Dare to put down my ethnicity at times. I used to keep quiet about it but now...I just tell them off for being racist. To prove our point that our dotter came from the BOTH of us and not just HER FATHER, our dotter's name includes both my name and her daddy's.
ur mil is CRAZY!!! just tel her, ur dd's blood is from ur hubby and urs... not msia or SG....Woah... so cool you.. really deep in love with your hubby.
my husband malaysian and me singaporean. to me it affects me a lot!
i dont know why they dont like singaporeans. even hubby thinks we singaporeans dont have manners , all we think about is money money, young that time never learn moral all that. even his msia friends although kidding but keep saying "see , you all singaporeans" then say if not for money, i also dont want stay here. :nah:
mother in law from the start know i pregnant say she dont want stay in singapore for long. say not use to the life here. ask if can bring baby to malaysia while i stay in sg work.
hubby cousin whu is working in sg send her son to her mom in msia for 2 years. after that then study here put to nanny. ( i dont know what she say is the truth or helping my mother in law )
mother in law ask me if can bring up to msia then 3 years old return to me back. i was very angry inside but i calmly tell her.. what if my daughter falls sick? she say there they have doctors what. then i say i dont bare for her to leave me. she say aiyah dont think baby will fall sick then she leave the rm.
to me, i think if my daughter fall sick or anything happen to her, she wont let us know also. dont let us worry.. if not how we going to see our daughter?? is a 8 hour drive up there.
there was once mother in law was changing pampers for dear daughter. Petpet which we bought in singapore finish so i pass to her i think drypers which we bought in msia. she say eh how come different. i say this want bought in msia.
then she say " she is malaysia blood what, not singapore blood "
Can you imagine my pain inside? i carry her for 40 weeks and you say she is not singapore blood. you meaning that she is not my child ? i quarrel with hubby when i told him what happen. so angry i went downstars and he chase me behind.
hai so many .. i didnt know this international relation will affect me. but one thing i know for sure.. since now im taking care of dear daughter myself, i ABSOLUTELY will not let her leave me and b so far away from me.
Typical Malaysian mother in law. I will get very offended if she ever said this to me.then she say " she is malaysia blood what, not singapore blood "