that's becos's he have not't really loss anything of value yet... if your moving does not trigger his tender side... then... it's time you reconsider your wedding vow....
*huggies*actually, i've already lost the war..like what i said:
--win lose (i win cos they cant move in).....(lose my r/s with hubby)
--lose lose (i lose cos they move in)....(i still lose my r/s with hubby cos he tinks ITS ONLY RIGHT that THEY MOVE IN N NOT COS I SACRIFISE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!))
i've tok nicely to him just now hoping that he sees that its NOT me who created all these problems n now that i'm willing to accept his family moving in....but results i got is----my fault cos i'm selfish!!!!!
tis time the quarrel is really bad....our genting trip is next week....got a feeling that woody wont wanna go.....actually its not the trip i'm worried about, its the r/s i'm concerned.....so if woody really dont wanna go, i know the crack in our r/s---hard to "mend" back.....
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Is it true that male & female have diff POV on the same issue??
Coz, Ian said the same thing as brO almOnd!
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that will be his childish side... make sure you hamtam him back ten fold when things get better....he did mention about it just now...he says marriage is about sharing sorrows....now that his family needs help, but i'm soooooo selfish----so its my fault again.....
he said he has finally see through me that i'm such a selfish person...n he goes on to curse my family.....zzzzzzz
he did mention about it just now...he says marriage is about sharing sorrows....now that his family needs help, but i'm soooooo selfish----so its my fault again.....
he said he has finally see through me that i'm such a selfish person...n he goes on to curse my family.....zzzzzzz
But he still dun want to understand. He's prob on auto shut off mode now, how you want him to wake up his ideas??you mean about his younger sis moving in, no matter how we quarrel???
aut dearie---i'm trying hard to drill a hole into woody's brain, wanting him to UNDERSTAND that i'm the one sacrifising....but he just refuse to get it into his brains n push all the fault to me cos i'm selfish~~~~
that will be his childish side... make sure you hamtam him back ten fold when things get better....
right now... take the humble pie.... step soft... make him open up first... make him see his folliness.....
oh ya... need to tell you... you can use this reason to move back... just tell him, you can't stand his childishness anymore....
You dont have, uncle ian is nice:001_302:How come recently a couple of us got such problems...??
Must go "pray pray pray"... Geez...
:err::err::err:He's not! His job sucksss!!!!You dont have, uncle ian is nice:001_302:
.................................You dont have, uncle ian is nice:001_302:
Hahaha but he is nice... my ah laooo job also abit ... today mother's day then his company ask him go Msia *Poutz*:err::err::err:He's not! His job sucksss!!!!
Y ............ ? I mean uncle ian is nice no mehhhh.... :tlaughr u want me to say u & uncle ian is nice hahahaha.................................
............................:err::err::err:He's not! His job sucksss!!!!
ian nice guy... but ya... his job sucks..... Lol....Y ............ ? I mean uncle ian is nice no mehhhh.... :tlaughr you want me to say you & uncle ian is nice hahahaha
Tell me which job not sucks hahahaha.... my ahh laooo one also machiam 24hrs zzzzzzzzzzzzz...ian nice guy... but ya... his job sucks..... Lol....