What do you do when your hubby SHOUTS at you in PUBLIC???

CanCanMum

CanCanMum

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under certain circumstances they may say like wad jal described.

eg: "wah lau, who ask u buy tat thing for 4k????"

Wife cry

Then husb will say "Cry cry laa! Do you think crying will solve the problem??? dont think just because you cry I will be scared of you ok!!!"

:p
 
CanCanMum

CanCanMum

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reginakoh said:
but cannot everytime use... use too much they will immune...:tlaugh:
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before marriage, it ALWAYS works :p

after marriage, it SOMETIMES works :p

after childbirth, it OCCASIONALLY works :p

perhaps our babies cry too much till the Men all immuned liaoOOO

blame the babies :p
 
-jOanna

-jOanna

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CanCanMum said:
before marriage, it ALWAYS works :p

after marriage, it SOMETIMES works :p

after childbirth, it OCCASIONALLY works :p

perhaps our babies cry too much till the Men all immuned liaoOOO

blame the babies :p
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HAHAHA!!

Baby cry = they dont know what to do..
Wife cry = they just 'hong hong' her can ..
 
apollo

apollo

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CanCanMum said:
before marriage, it ALWAYS works :p

after marriage, it SOMETIMES works :p

after childbirth, it OCCASIONALLY works :p

perhaps our babies cry too much till the Men all immuned liaoOOO

blame the babies :p
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TOTALLY AGREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! esp aft baby is born!!!! haha!!! :tlaugh:
 
apollo

apollo

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and i cannot cry when my hubby is driving... cause he will keep look at me and seems v scare, keep ask me what happen... so in order to prevent accident, i cannot cry when he's driving... :tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh:
 
CanCanMum

CanCanMum

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reginakoh said:
and i cannot cry when my hubby is driving... cause he will keep look at me and seems very scare, keep ask me what happen... so in order to prevent accident, i cannot cry when he's driving... :tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh:
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erm....in tat case please try and control your tears

until he parks the car then u start crying please

ren ren ren
 
jal

jal

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CanCanMum said:
yeah most men cannot bear to see woman cry~~~

lols~~~~

its our secret weapon kekekekeke~~~~
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My hubby does not know how to 'hong hong wo'! He said I am an adult already, so please behave like one. Stop your childish behaviour!!!
 
autumn82

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jal said:
My hubby does not know how to 'hong hong wo'! He said I am an adult already, so please behave like one. Stop your childish behaviour!!!
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:err: How come sounds so much like wat I say to DH... :tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh:
 
M

mich_liu82

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Last time younger maybe i will shout back.

If now, before i walk away, i will wave and say, "Bye maddie, enjoy exercising your lungs"
 
M

mich_liu82

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CanCanMum said:
before marriage, it ALWAYS works :p

after marriage, it SOMETIMES works :p

after childbirth, it OCCASIONALLY works :p

perhaps our babies cry too much till the Men all immuned liaoOOO

blame the babies :p
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WAHAHAHAHA.... LOL:tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh::tlaugh:
 
U

uddermummy

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CanCanMum said:
before marriage, it ALWAYS works :p

after marriage, it SOMETIMES works :p

after childbirth, it OCCASIONALLY works :p

perhaps our babies cry too much till the Men all immuned liaoOOO

blame the babies :p
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true, true! My mil's tears work better than mine! Sigh!
 
bellerichez

bellerichez

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Jan said:
I choose option 2... But I dont think my husband will shout at me in public. Even he raises his voice at home at me, I already look straight into his eyes and tell him "I am not deaf, you dont't need to raise your voice", then I will choose to ignore him for some times until he BUAY TAHAN then come and pacify me...
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Haha. Same. But so far my hubby never shout at me in public before. But there's once he came back drunk and shouted at me for no reason at home. I was very angry cos kena scolded for no reason.

The next moment i packed my things and took a cab back home, imagine a pregnant lady carrying so many things early in the morning at 5.30am. After that i ignore him for days. Until he cannot take it anymore. He start calling me the whole day and i didn't answer or reply to his sms. He even called my sister and told her what happen and ask my sis to ask me give him a call back. He don't have the mood to work at all. His friend even call me and ask me what happen.
 
apollo

apollo

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bellerichez said:
Haha. Same. But so far my hubby never shout at me in public before. But there's once he came back drunk and shouted at me for no reason at home. I was very angry cos kena scolded for no reason.

The next moment i packed my things and took a cab back home, imagine a pregnant lady carrying so many things early in the morning at 5.30am. After that i ignore him for days. Until he cannot take it anymore. He start calling me the whole day and i didn't answer or reply to his sms. He even called my sister and told her what happen and ask my sis to ask me give him a call back. He dont't have the mood to work at all. His friend even call me and ask me what happen.
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if it happens to me, i cannot pack and go cos hubby and me are still staying at my parents' place... unless i KICK him out... :tlaugh:
 
jal

jal

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bellerichez said:
Haha. Same. But so far my hubby never shout at me in public before. But there's once he came back drunk and shouted at me for no reason at home. I was very angry cos kena scolded for no reason.

The next moment i packed my things and took a cab back home, imagine a pregnant lady carrying so many things early in the morning at 5.30am. After that i ignore him for days. Until he cannot take it anymore. He start calling me the whole day and i didn't answer or reply to his sms. He even called my sister and told her what happen and ask my sis to ask me give him a call back. He dont't have the mood to work at all. His friend even call me and ask me what happen.
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Wah!!! How dare your hubby shout at you for NO reason!!! Even if there is a reason, also cannot shout!!!
 
shiseru

shiseru

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Married for 12 years, my husband never shouts at me. He has very good temper. On the contrary, my temper is very bad, It explode so quick sometimes I dont even realise that I'm loosing it! Ahh bo, how to survive through these 12 years?

If i put myself in that situation, I think I would have slapped him, or slammed him, or kicked him in the a55 (hmm i dont know but my tolerance is ZERO) aah well that's just me...

I think number 2 will be the best remedy. When one is angry, words can be very harsh, you can say/hear the most horrible things, so it's best to walk away and leave him alone. One bloody fool is enough, you dont't need to join him.
 
bellerichez

bellerichez

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shiseru said:
When one is angry, words can be very harsh, you can say/hear the most horrible things, so it's best to walk away and leave him alone. One bloody fool is enough, you dont't need to join him.
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Yup agreed. Once you're angry you will never think before u speak and then regret later on.
 
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