mamapenguin
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Why doesn't she consult a marriage councillor? Sometimes a qualified 3rd party can see better & give reasonable advice.
Aiyoh, not her fault also.. dun need to feel guilt stricken la.. *shakes head* She kanna poison by her DH oredi.. She can provide the kids with a happy family de!! Dun worry, she has the means to do so! I believe every mum have this very special "powers"!! Tell her dun worry too much..mamapenguin > yes she did. But she said the advices and suggestions are mostly what we have told her, if not alike but similar. She even asked her hb to go face-to-face counselling sessions with her but he refused to.
oh dear! My gf just broke into tears!! She thinks she is unable to provide the kids with a happy family and feels guilt stricken...
This is a disturbing thread. Reminds me of a recent incident with my ex. We were together as teenagers and were each others' 'first'. Now we're good friends. He tells me everything, things he will never tell his wife. The recent nonsense he's up to, though I shouldn't be surprised, reinforced how glad I am that our relationship ended when it did. Last week he informed me that he has a f*** buddy in the form of a china woman he met in a ktv bar. This is a guy who is trying for a baby with his wife! I ask him why he doing this, considering he got married not too long ago. His answer was that he gets bored easily and his wife just doesn't excite him. Why marry in the first place? His answer was that it was just time for him to start a family. I don't think I will ever understand why there are people like him who do the things they do.
I told my hb about this and my hb was so disgusted he told me i shouldn't be friends with my ex anymore. At least not all men think the same way.
she is feeling this way becoz she said nowadays the hb did not talk much to the kids either.Aiyoh, not her fault also.. dun need to feel guilt stricken la.. *shakes head* She kanna poison by her DH oredi.. She can provide the kids with a happy family de!! Dun worry, she has the means to do so! I believe every mum have this very special "powers"!! Tell her dun worry too much..
ancing_tongue:like tat very stressed hor. We now have 101 things to look after. No wonder we are from multi-racial society and also multi-task experts.do not be too quick to assure yourself "thank God my hb is not like that", because one day, you might face the same issue. & if you're not prepared, it will hit you like a bomb.... but we must never let the ball drop. becos if we do, we will lose the game.
ancing_tongue:like tat very stressed hor. We now have 101 things to look after. No wonder we are from multi-racial society and also multi-task experts.
It'll be terrible to go tru life forever worrying abt hb's fidelity. I want to have faith in my partner. I want to believe he loves me as much as I love him. Naive I know but why can't I have what my parents have?
So far my hb quite honest with me. Told me if I turn into an unkept Ah Soh, don't blame him for looking at other girls. I told him he must b reasonable oso mah. Can't expect me to immediately look like pre-pregnancy after birth. And if he wans me to look good he has to fork out the $$ for my gym session etc. Think I Angelina Jolie ar? Pregnant with twins still so skinny.
My hb is oso stricter than me. He say chatting guy or girl up over irc is considered cheating, especially more so if it's in a flirtatious manner. In fact, to him, any kind of flirting is considered cheating. Makes me very scared to talk to any guys!
I really don't know if closing one eye is a solution. Sometimes if a guy thinks he can step on a girl, they kind of lose respect for her and step harder.
it's really selfish that the guy say things like 'wife cant excite him'. his wife also nv complain abt him. he dare complain. his figure n looks still as good as b4 meh? stamina n performance still as good meh? SO ANGRY!! hahahaha...
It'll be terrible to go tru life forever worrying abt hb's fidelity. I want to have faith in my partner. I want to believe he loves me as much as I love him. Naive I know but why can't I have what my parents have?
So far my hb quite honest with me. Told me if I turn into an unkept Ah Soh, don't blame him for looking at other girls. I told him he must b reasonable oso mah. Can't expect me to immediately look like pre-pregnancy after birth. And if he wans me to look good he has to fork out the $$ for my gym session etc. Think I Angelina Jolie ar? Pregnant with twins still so skinny.
My hb is oso stricter than me. He say chatting guy or girl up over irc is considered cheating, especially more so if it's in a flirtatious manner. In fact, to him, any kind of flirting is considered cheating. Makes me very scared to talk to any guys!
I really don't know if closing one eye is a solution. Sometimes if a guy thinks he can step on a girl, they kind of lose respect for her and step harder.
i believe in tao hua. my fortune teller got ask me dun b too nice to married men / attached guys also. but dunno is it every1 will kena.talking abt fortune tellers, coz my gf oso went to them. Then they say every1 will kenna this "tao hua yun" in their life. Every1 leh. Do u believe?
true... so unfair. sigh........ :nah:men can don't care becos got china women & batam women maahhh ... they can be as fat & ugly as they want as long as got $$
yup, he looked like me, most ppl said this. And i feel proud of it :001_302:liang jia > u have uploaded a v cute pix of ur boy...does he look like u?
hi mrs puppy,cancanmum > i alw feel that if hb starts to want more privacy n more personal space, something is wrong. unfaithfulness might not happen yet. if haven happen, easier to handle. just need to hv a good talk w hb. but if hb dun want to talk, high chance unfaithfulness happen alr......if i'm ur that friend, i'll try to catch them redhanded.
hahaha! why u feel proud hah? Becoz ur hb is ugly izzit???yup, he looked like me, most ppl said this. And i feel proud of it :001_302: