mecolemummy
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Hi admin, pls start a forum for 2013!!! I got a new year baby!!! Thanks
Hey there!Same like my first pregnancy. I tested using clearblue digital n clearly showed pregnant 1-2. So as printed on the box, it is assumed im already abt 3-4weeks. So being a first time curious n anxious mummy n daddy to be, hubby n i took urgent leave the next day to go to poly to confirm it. I still rmbr i was wearing a maxi dress. Then wen reach poly register n all n they ask me take urine test. Then wen finally get to see the doc(u know how long it is to wait at polyclinics), the doc ask me y r u here? Then i said im pregnant. Then he ask me how i know im pregnant. So i told him i took a home pregnancy test which shows 1-2 which means im already 3-4weeks. N i ask hubby to take out the test kit to show him. I asked the doc, didnt i just take a urine test? He said ya but is negative. Then he showed me the strip. I said there's a faint line wat.. Then he said oh isit? Walauwei! At this time, hubby n i r pissed off already. N Then after hubby showed my home pregnancy test kit, the doc can somemore ask me, wat does the 1-2 means? Omg!!! This doc is super damn irritating man!! Then he ask me lie down on the "bed" he wants to check my tummy, then he saw me wearing a maxi dress and asked, do u always dress like this? Maternity wear?? Omg!! Then hubby told him off, NO she sometimes got wear tight n fitting dresses also. Then when i lie on the bed, the doc kept pressing n pressing my tummy. After he said ok n ask me sit down again. Then he said actually take home test kit liao no need come see doc. Then i say i just want to confirm only mah. Its my first n i dunno wat to do. Then he insist i go back. But hubby insist he confirm my pregnancy so in the end he referred me to kkh a&e.
We went there straight. Again the waiting game. Take urine test again then see doc told her want to confirm pregnancy she did an internal scan say cant ser anything maybe still to small ask me come back in 2 weeks time.
The next week,exactly one week later, i had a sharp pain in my abdomen while at werk then there was a brownish discharge. I asked all my collegues n they said its normal. Then i asked my bestie who had just gave birth n she said its not normal. Coz wen she was pregnant, there was no brownish discharge. So she ask me straight go kkh. N after werk i did went straight. I told the doctor wat i had n she did a blood test and said i might hv a miscarriage or ectopic pregnamcy. And told me to walk ard for abt 2hrs then come back for blood test result. I was crying n crying non stop. Gd thing hubby was with me. Then wen finally get to see the doc, she said my hcg level super extremely low. Ask me come back in 2 days time as it is suppose to rise by double per day. 2 days later i came back but with my gf took another blood test, walk ard for 2 hrs then came back say confirm mc. N the doctor was soooo heartless. She told me the news n with a non sympathetic face said u ok? Of coz i had to say im ok. Then she ask me go home. No explanations nothing. I totally cried my heart out with my gf comforting me. Then my gf sent me to my hubby's workplace, hubby took urgenylt half day to be with me. Coz i was crying n crying non stop. Then wen i told my mother in law n mom, all ask me to go for second opinion on y i didnt hv to go thru d&c. So hubby's aunt made an apptmnt for us with one of the doctors that she knew at thomson, did scanning n confirmed m/c. But she was more motherly n warm n caring n sympathise us. N we asked her alott alott of questions. N she answers them with care n concern. Unlike that kkh doctors. Gosh!
Overall i had a horrendous first tyme pregnancy n m/c experience. Now im 7weeks pregnant. N just saw my baby with its heartbeat. Awww.. Soooo cute! Hopefully nothing happens. N this tyme i want to really choose a good gynae. Ok im blabbering too much. Just to share my experience with everyone here, so that h dun hv to go thru wat i had went thru. All the best mummies! ;D
Hey! Thank you!! hmm.. so fast you are in your 12 weeks... im just in my 6th weeks... i just change my gynae to DR Brian Chow at lucky plaza, my first appointment with him its on this saturday.. im experiencing spottings for the whole of last week hmm.. hope nothing is wrong... i went to NUH emergency last week due to spottings and after my detail scan, everything is fine....Yes2 of coz we can be frens. Im also looking for mummies who r in almost the same weeks as me. So that can share our experiences together. So CrystalLove, which gynae r u seeing now?
Angella, my first appointment with a gynae at kkh is the 22nd june. Initially they wanted to give me july but i kept insisting i want earlier n the earliest they have is June.. Thats just too long!! I told hubby n he said to just stick to that. Coz last week i went to my GP n i got a scolding for not having a gynae by now. Due to my previous case. She said scared anything can happen again. But wat to do, thats the earliest they hv..
By then my lil peanut is 12 weeks already. Wont get to see him/her growing up in between..
I like the idea cos im more active in FB anyway *thumbs-up*Hello mummies.. Im currently in one fb group called Bumps to Babies 2013. But they r all ang mohs. N im the only asian there. Its a private group so no one can search nor view the group. The group is very interesting as we get to share our daily activities, on wats happening. Like feeling fatigue, or vomitting extra today. N even sharing of photos after going for their u/s. So im planning of opening one up for SG mummies to be. Would anyone be interested to join? Dont worry, i'll put it as private n a secret. So for thise who has not blurt out the news yet, need not hv to worry having ppl finding out. Then we can share more things there. N talk abt anything under the sun(or rain as well). Hehe.. Maybe can suggest a name for our fb page group? I'll start off. Im thinking of 2013 MTB. Any suggestions anyone? Hands up if u r interested that i start this group. ;D
I do not have any cramp, if i have small cramps, spotting doesnt happens, wierd right? haha maybe is gastric, my friend were having gastric throughout her first trimester, its hard to determine individual symptons cos its different. As long as Baby is fine then prob nothing would be wrong... dun worry, lets jia you together alright...Crystaloves, im now in my 8th week. If i go for my scanning on 22nd june then my lil peanut will be 12th weeks already. Oh gosh.. Hope i r ok now.. Any cramps that come with the spotting? Anyways, im just wondering, i sometimes get cramps right after i sneeze or cough. Is that normal?? Im just afraid anything wud happen.
Hi Mecole Mummy, doeant seem like alot of ppl r interested le..
Skali i create then only got the two of us..