if your husband support you it'll be easier .. but looks like your husband also sayang her .. no use la .. whole family treat her like baby. say what also no use one .. just try to keep your distance away from her can already .. be civilDon't think PIL mind if the grandkids carry their surname or not, as long as they r SIL kids. The bought all kinds of gifts for SIL kids.
When PIL pay for their holiday and meals, FIL said "goong goong buy for the 孙儿 to eat and play one"!
Don't think anyone dare to slap SIL.
Do u believe that SIL and her husband and my HB younger brother never call me 大嫂 as they address my name directly?
Is this normal?
My mum said they don't respect me and PIL never correct them. My HB also never make any noise and it has been many years Liao.
actually i never address my younger bro in law as xiao di or what leh .. i also dunno how to address him .. 輩份 wise im elder than him, but my age is a lot younger than him .. so i address him by name ..