Think I wil talk to my hubby again n see if better to do bb shower the same day. Tired one day seems better than tired in 2 days.
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miniClaire
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I dun have BH yet at week 34 coming close to week 35. Is this normal? But My pelvis pain getting worse
I am also thinking between one day for family and next day for friends. Cos my family would prefer lunch, and if i arrange for friend's dinner. There is a possibility that some of my relatives may still be around during dinner time. So i duno how much i should order. Cant possibly tell them that dinner is only for friends?!
I think i will not be govng cakes to relatives, but i guess i better ask my mum first to reconfirm its ok. Most prob just invite all relatives for a good buffet. Less hassle as well.
Wah whole family come and only give $20-30? I dont think my relatives will do that.
Just that i got a feeling i will get alot of chicken essences and DOM, which i dont drink. Cos i already heard a few relatives telling me that they will get that for me. :S
yah agree, watever action the follow is pointless... same here, I'll turned away and show him a disappointed face and go into the room and cry... sometimes, maybe he felt my disappointment or heard me crying, he'll come and 'sayang me'... after that it's forgive and forget..Try not to feel disappointed. Believed your hubby meant no ill. Guys are just not sensitive at times. you can try to tell your hubby how you felt whenever he behave 'like what' re your feelings.
I was having very bad cramplike pain last nite. Sorta breathless too so told my hubby. He was on his phone playing game so no response at all. I waited like 5 mins he also never look over at me once.
I was very Disappointed then so I told him that I expect him to at least ask after how I was feeling. He was abit annoyed n commented that he cannot do much re my ccondition too. When I heard this, I felt even worse so I kept quiet n turned away. After a while, he sorta Realised that he hurt me with his remarks so he started asking if he do this if he do that can help my pain.
Actually at that point in time, watever subsequent action he did is pointless as the moment that I need his attention n concern was gone. However, when I think back later in the nite, being a guy, he can never truly understand how emotional we are during pregnancy. Thus, no point feeling upset when he may never know y we behave in certain manner. Guess we need to have such ' Q' spirit else we just make ourselves unhappy. End of day, our hubby do care n love us in his oown manner, this is what is impt.
So mummies, if you ever feel upset re how your hubby behave, dont be k! Rem you always have us here to share n carewe all jia you k!
hi reddevil,
I can understand how u feel.. my hubby was in India for work purpose for abt 6 weeks when I was scheduled for the amnio test.. and so coincidental, I fell sick wif cough, flu, sore throat and slight fever (was given 5 days MC in total)... was yearning for his return or phone call every night.. lucky I had my mum to accompany me to the test and stay over during weekends to look after me..
wat I did was, I tell myself, weekdays after work, I'll be too tired to think of hubby, so once I reach home, after watching TV I'll go to bed.. weekends, I'll try to meet up wif my gal frens for chit-chat or get them to come to my house if I'm too tried to go out.. tis way, time will pass faster without you knowing..
got give is better then come onli w/ empty stomach. i already mental prepare some will come w/o AB or gift.
for the buffet can divide out to 2 session. think relative will go off if see friend come, unless they so HUNGRY ,must eat both sessions.
i try to keep buget on buffet n cake. cos as long got food for them n cake to bring home, dun expect too much for the small AB given.
to me this shower must be done cos is both side 1st grand child
u must cry loud so he hear u lo?? next time i cry i must sure he hear it. hahaha.
hubby say i getting weaker n more emotional, like not the strong girl he know...cos i use to do/handle thing myself, i dun need any helps, or cry if thing dun work out. nowadays i always ask for help or sad/cry over little stuff.. anyway forgive n forget.
counting down to my ML, hope baby will be out on 37week. i very weak n tired already.
cupcakemum
Member
Good morning ladies
Have you bought nipple cream? Wondering which brand to get..any recommendations pls?
Have you bought nipple cream? Wondering which brand to get..any recommendations pls?
My boy is 2kg at week 33 and 2.2 at week 35. Doc says he is on the small side and expected to be less than 3kg at birth (40 weeks). She hopes he will not come out before week 40 as he is still small.
Hi Rukia,
My gynae shows me on the ultrascan that my baby has a head full of hair now
Its from the normal scan? Ok I shall ask my gynae in my next visit. So excited!!
I think pregnancy cause us to be more dependent and emotional. I use to do alot of things by myself as well. Nowadays I prefer my hubby sayang me and help me...kekeke
Even watching some dramas will bring on the tears. There were a few times, my hubby turned and looked at me in disbelief, crying while watching the drama. Haha! Then he will ask if I want to switch channels...