yes marriage is based on trust, but not blinding trust.eeerrrrmmmm is hiring a PI really a good choice? i feel its kinda extreme............. its like passing him a death sentence before he trial..... dont you think that marriage should be based on trust and not on PHYSICAL EVIDENCE? my dear husband do make it a point to ring me up every now and then to tell me where is he/with who......... i can only say i have 100% confidence in him...........
If 1 day i suspect him of secretly 'eating' outside and i hire a PI, what if he happens to find out? when he is totally innocent???? then???? 99.999% e marriage would collapse.............agree?
Hiring a PI is not passing him a death sentence, it's in fact verifing whether the suspicion is truth. If it's at least u have the evidence. If it's not true, he will not know because the investigation is done discreetly.
Your husband can ring u up and tell u where he is, but if he is lying will u know?
Many wife are like u. Trusting the husband too blinding and in the end when they 'open' their eyes the husband is not there.
Anyway, u don't check your husband if there is no suspicion. And even if he is having affair, u can never get him to admit. So a PI is a better option as we housewife, don't know how to do it