wahhhh~~~lols~~~~cancanmum, my hubby said he'll stay on ... i think he said that becos he scare i'll slap him if he said he will divorce! HAHA!
this happens to my aunt and his husband....no love no feelings and staying on for the sake of stayin on....and too old to divorce also But but!!! They dun share same bed lols~~~I know of 1 couple who is like that. They stay on cos of the commitment they made to each other though they dont love each other anymore. Both have fallen in love with someone outside their marriage, but they still stick to their marriage even though there's no love. Seems more like 2 strangers living in the same house, sharing the same bed.
haha, because by then time, i will have a lot of cpf, and can be a free and happy woman!Eh... Why divorce only after your hubby retires??? Is it because he will have a lot of CPF/pension??? Please enlighten me.
eh, because the old bed is too comfortable?this happens to my aunt and his husband....no love no feelings and staying on for the sake of stayin on....and too old to divorce also But but!!! They dont share same bed lols~~~
how come no feelings still can share same bed lehh?
i totally understand the bed part!!! :tlaugh:They told me it's because they put in too much effort into their house & they paid so much for the bed, so no one is willing to NOT sleep on the bed
*hugs* von, dont think too much le.Anybody wld wonder why stay on and even feel it's meaningless to hold on....but oni the ppl involved are in the best position to judge...you'll never kn for sure how you'll react when things really happens on yourself...esp when there's kids and 3rd party...:wefrown:
yeah, last time i quarrel with my ex i also throw him off my bed.i totally understand the bed part!!! :tlaugh:
sighz.. not much improvements...kbfgrace babe~~~
sorry hows your situation with hubby oredi? Is everything alrite?
it really depends on what the lie is about, and if he'll do it again.what if... your hubby did something you cant forgive nor forget.. will you stay for the kid? but of cos.. you dont hate him.. stay together still will talk. and he treat you very well? as in.. he has always been treating you very well since day 1 and has never changed but one day he told a lie that you cant forgive nor forget... will you divorce cos no trust together also no pt or will you stay on for the kid or what?
is it better to divorce when the baby still young or what?
no way... i will def leave him cos i don't want my dd to grow up thinking that it's okay to abuse and be abused!so if he abuse you you also stay for your girl?
i don't know lehh... depends on how much i love him and if he will keep making the same mistake...oh.. so if he unfaithful 2nd time you sure say bye bye ? even got girl also?