totally agree w u momomummy....
e hubby really gotta do his part n get involved w e process of caring n taking care of e bb as well...if not it will definately be a lost battle for us wifey...n also e hubbies need to tell n show to their mums tt they as daddies want those precious bonding...
hiz goldiemum...same for me as well...i cldn't bring my dog over to stay w my PILs :( as they r clean ppl...even e stuff toys tt my hubby catches at those arcade shops r regularly 'bathed' w a damp cloth..!! :err:
anw...my dog tends to be very barky in e beginning when i brought my son over to...
just to add on...
i'm a full time working mum, currently staying with my PILs who are my son's primary caregiver...like you i was also afraid that my son wld not be close to me...started e full time wkend parenting regime where we wld bring dear son out even if itz to e nearby shopping centre...
too many dogs...hmz pardon my bluntness...issist coz you are afraid that it'll be of too much work for your mum or healthwise for your baby that you are not open to letting your mum care for your baby..?? if itz e latter...i believe it won't be an issue (assuming your baby is not allergic to...
my son's palms and feet are also sweaty sweaty type...inherit from me...:( hopefully it gets better when he's older...like me...now still sweaty but not as bad as when i was young..had to literally place a cloth under my palm when writing...if not it'll be dirty and smudge my work...:(
OMG..!! itz quite sense-less of ur MIL to do such a thing....hope ur boy is doing fine...*hugs*
eh ur hubby ah...hmz..siding with his heart not sense...maybe let him noe tt if his mum continues her way of taking care of his son..in e future it'll be both u n him suffering for e poor health...
i agree with mummiestarries....e after effects of not following such sayings will normally take place in e later part of your years...i have relatives around me who suffered for their ways and so i guai guai listen to my parents and parent in law during confinement...besides to me itz...
agree w pink daisy...not many men can resist e temptations...but of course such things takes 2 hands to clap as well...so those girls r at fault as well...
watever e case...i think we shld always give our hubby benefit of e doubt...unless we can find concrete proof....