all the best for you babe. I'm sure it's hard for him too, to be torn between a woman he's obliged to respect, and the woman of his dreams I'm sure he loves both of you v much just that he doesn't know how to express it maybe?So true..n yes im putting it on hold..if he still doesnt want to listen to me,i might consider telling him to marry his mum or other girls..hahaa..
still waiting for him to talk to his mum tho..my mum is ok with anything..bt i dono la when he will talk to her.. *roll eyes*
Hahaha.. i think by saying this means you have never tried being one before...KiBin..so true..hahaa
Can i be the controller instead.?
*screams* NOoooooooOoooOlaa mummies...im getting married but unsure if its a good idea to stay with in-laws or not..gd or bad idea?n y?
Im gg to rant..U guys know 'harem pants'?i wore that once..and she was like,'eeee wad are u wearing?'
n since im quite big-sized,my clothes will be fitting..fitting ok,NOT TIGHT-fitting..she'll comment that i look fat n shld wear loose clothings..uurghh nvrmind..
She nvr bothers 2 ask if we have plans on our off day..n she'll be making her own plans n tell us,eg,'get ready quick,we're gg wlds.'
I am super pissed-off with her at times..n he'll jux say,'my mother wad..nvrmind la..'
Hello,i have feelings too ya knw..
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Goodness!! I think this is a bad sign. Seriously!
Iqa, my hubby is a mummy's boy and my mil is a scheming witch. I have no good things to say about her, not even one word.i think perhaps Iqa is afraid to offend her fiance and in laws ?
but he treats her like dirt. i will dump him if i were her.
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Dearest kimitsusei..
He treats me well honey..he buys me things n takes care of me well..only when it comes to this that he sucks..blearghh..
Iqa, mine didn't change until this incident when his scheming mother sold her house (which was 7mins drive away from ours) without telling her only son. And she bought a place directly opposite our house. It was a long story anyway.KiBin hon..ive always been the 'aiyaa up to u laa'..hahaa...now regret liao... ^^v
Anyway..im still wondering wad comes in a guy's head if the word marriage pops out..hehee..and i heard 95%(or so) guys change when they're married..clarify pls..
At this point, you are not married so you still can be firm. Once you are married, your life belongs to her. Once you have kids, it also belong to her. She is not going to change because she is your senior and your hubby overly adores her. So it's either you tolerant her nonsense for as long as she lives or you walk out of your marriage.So true..n yes im putting it on hold..if he still doesnt want to listen to me,i might consider telling him to marry his mum or other girls..hahaa..
still waiting for him to talk to his mum tho..my mum is ok with anything..bt i dono la when he will talk to her.. *roll eyes*
You can behave like this now. But you cannot behave like this when she becomes your MIL.I forget to add a situation a month ago..
His working 12hrs shifts..so we mit only once a week..fair enough..so there's this week,his off was on a sunday..i woke up at 8am & waited for him to wake up at 11am..nvrmind..So he got ready n all..at 12.30pm i asked him,'are u out yet?' he replied,'soon ok'..Then he text me,'want to go woodlands?'i said no,n i knew,it was his mum's idea..
HIM: mum want to go wlds.
ME: no!hello u promised to mit me ok!I waited from 8am for u.atlast ure telling me ure gg out wif ur mother..
HIM: bt she wants to shengshiong..
ME: other days also can go wad.! Ok fine!5pm under my block!
HIM: cannot..after dat she wants to go cemetery..
ME: wth!!! Ppl go there morning nt evening..crazy uh?!?
HIM: bt she wants to go wad..
ME: i waited 1 stupid week to mit u & nw have to wait another stupid week..stupid..
HIM: sorry..im very sorry.sorry(idk hw many times)
ME: u knw wad?go la.go follow ur beloved mother for all i care.better still,stay at d cemetery..
God..i was super pissed off..ive already made plans for the day lor..n even got my clothes ready..